PELAYANAN KONSELING RELIGIUS KYAI KAMPUNG PADA MASYARAKAT MODERN

Abstract

The purpose of this research is to find out how the competence and model of religious counseling service of village kyai in modern society. This type of research is descriptive qualitative research. Sources of data in this study include primary data and secondary data. Methods of data collection is done by observation, interviews, and documentation. The validity of the data was obtained through triangulation. Furthermore, the collected data were analyzed by means of data reduction, data presentation, and drawing conclusions. The results of the study show that the competence of the village kyai spiritual counselor is as follows: (a) understanding the nature of humans as God's creatures (b) convincing the counselee that God is the helper of humans (c) guiding the counselee's religious life during the counseling process (d) being an inspiration for the counselee during the counseling process. counseling process (e) developing oneself as a facilitator to provide counseling services, (f) applying the professional characteristics of general counselors (having good psychological health, self-awareness, open mind, empathy, unconditional view of positive things, genuineness) and conformity (congruence), and non-judgment (g) using religious resources in the counseling process (h) applying religious coping to help counselees. Three counseling techniques are used by the village kyai: First, counseling by hand (power), with authority. The counselor interprets the hand for therapy, Second, oral counseling, by giving advice, discussing, interviewing the counselee, Third, prayer techniques